He was thewound too tighttype that I always associated with muscle worship, so I couldn’t help wondering if he’d discovered something new about himself and hadn’t been able to process it yet.
“Then when we get more privacy, tonight or the next time we meet, I’ll take my shirt off and you can see if that makes it even better.” It seemed like a reasonable step, but he went still for a few seconds.
“Do you have significant amounts of body hair? Your shirt is thick and I can’t tell.” His fingers kept moving but it seemed like his brain had shifted gears. “I don’t. I don’t know if that’s genetic or not, but there’s nothing I can do about it.”
“We’ve learned a variety of ways to remove it but adding it hasn’t been something scientists have been very successful at.” My slightly odd but technically logical response made him sigh and nod. “Yes, I have a bit of chest hair and in the traditional places, but I keep the hair around my cock trimmed and I waxed when I was younger and fell into bodybuilding for a while. I don’t do that anymore, though.”
“That’s interesting. I might have questions on that later.” Going back to wiggling and snugging seemed to mean he was more confident again, so I wasn’t surprised when he circled back to the last topic that’d caught his attention. “What about your feelings on my body?”
“I don’t have strong preferences either way, but I like us being so different, so I think I’m going to enjoy it.” It was just a bit too easy to imagine running my hands over his body, but I wasn’t sure this was the right time to mention that. “You just need to let me know if you figure out any limits around it.”
“Like what?” Rubbing his cheek against my pec, he let out a quiet, happy sound I knew he hadn’t realized he’d made.
“One example would be if I comment on how beautiful your skin is and it draws attention to our body hair differences ina way that makes you uncomfortable. There are also kinks and verbal erotic teasing that could come into play, and we won’t know how you’ll react until that moment.” He hadn’t explored anything, so there was no way we could predict how he’d react to everything.
“I read that it’ll be helpful if you decide to restrain my penis in some kind of cage. Body hair can make that more difficult because of cleanliness issues and hair getting trapped.” His adorably logical response said he was educated about the subject but not how he felt about it.
Probably because he didn’t know.
“That is correct, so we won’t have to worry about those kinds of issues when we explore cages.” The assumptive response got a nod from him, which actually told me a lot. “Is that what you meant when you talked about my being in control of penis-based decision-making?”
Because I still had a lot of questions about that topic and I wasn’t going to let it go until I’d gotten enough information to help him to either explore his body or to jerk off to later.
Or both.
Yes, probably both.
Chapter 4
Slightly Less Confused Sub
“Can I ask what you’re thinking first or do I need to answer the question? Are there etiquette rules around this?” There were rules about manners when it came to nearly everything but these hadn’t been spelled out neatly online.
I’d seen other things, though. “Did you know there are online communities of BDSM people who fight about the rules? Some clubs are trying to convince other ones that subs need to be nearly naked to be a sub in a club like this.”
That was ridiculous.
My Dom’s snort said he knew it too. “Can you imagine anyone telling Conner he had to dress a certain way in order to be a sub?”
“No.” I knew I’d been right about that. “Other people aren’t that smart, though.”
“Agreed.” Petting my head, he made a pleased sound. “But back to your question. I was imagining different ways you might explain penis-based decision-making and some of those thoughts led to more erotic ones.”
Oh.
His chuckle said I’d given away my surprise, but he didn’t seem to mind and didn’t get distracted. “Based on how you would define that idea, I thought about jerking off to it later.”
“Because you find the idea of control erotic.” It wasn’t really a question but I appreciated it when he nodded and made sure I knew I was right. “That’s fairly common in Doms.”
“I’m glad you know that so I didn’t surprise you.” His fingers combed through my hair as he made a pleased sound. “Was my explanation thorough enough or did you want to know the options I found most erotic?”
“Yes, please.” Guessing on my own would have me going in circles. “As long as you don’t mind.”
“I don’t.” Still stroking my head, he made a pleased sound like whatever he was thinking about was nice. “Let’s see...I think I liked the idea of your penis being caged the most for control reasons and because I think you’d look sexy that way. I also think you’d like not having to worry about it, and I like the idea of making you happy.”
That was nice of him.
“I thought that sounded interesting too.” Low stress at the very least. “My thoughts on penis-based decision-making also put things like ways touching it are allowed and orgasm control in the same category. Most Dominants I found online have very strong preferences about those things. Do you?”
