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The bell rang out and on cue they started to approach all at once, like a stampeding herd.
Standing back to let the first wave pass while shivering in the late-March wind and cold, I pulled my gloved hands out of my pockets and tugged my woolly hat a bit more firmly down over my ears, tucking my wispy dark hair underneath it. Another blast of wind hit me in the face, turning my cheeks an even brighter shade of pink.
I knew that I could just stay in my car and keep warm while waiting for my five-year-old, Rosie, to emerge from Junior Infants class at Applewood Primary. However, she and I had a ritual of sorts and the typically inclement Irish weather wasn’t going to stand in the way of it.
Each and every day after school, I wait for Rosie just outside the school building, a bit down the front path by the main hall. During the more temperate months, we walk the half mile home together to our two-bed cottage in Knockroe, a small satellite town about forty minutes’ drive from Dublin.
I’d never failed to meet Rosie in our chosen spot since she started school seven months ago. I was determined to never let her exit the class and not have me there—at least until my daughter told me that she wanted to walk home by herself or with friends. I wasn’t one of those helicopter parents or anything like that, but, come hell or high water, I would make sure I was there—especially since Rosie was still having nightmares about that one time after preschool.
The day when no one was waiting.
Hard to believe that fateful day was almost two years ago—it still felt like only yesterday. A chill worked its way up my spine—one that this time wasn’t triggered by the cold.
In her preschool days, my husband, Greg, had been the one responsible for picking up Rosie. Greg had worked from home, so it was he who had more flexibility and usually the opportunity to step away from the office he kept in the spare bedroom, and head over to the preschool to pick up our daughter. Since I work as a nurse at a clinic in a nearby town, I had generally kept more irregular hours.
I had long been thankful that my husband could play such an active role in Rosie’s childhood, especially while my own commitments prevented me from being around as much as I would have liked.
My commitments are different these days.
Because there had been one time when Greg couldn’t make it to the preschool at the allotted time of 12:45 p.m. to pick Rosie up. Not because he didn’t want to, had forgotten or neglected to pay attention to the time, but because he had collapsed in our kitchen earlier that morning while making himself a cup of tea.
Sudden Adult Death Syndrome had ended my beloved husband’s life in seconds; he likely hadn’t even realized what was happening.
I wasn’t aware that I’d been made a widow when the preschool teacher called me at work that afternoon to say that they couldn’t get in touch with Greg at home. That terrible realization didn’t come until later.
After calling our home phone as well as Greg’s mobile, trying to figure out what was going on, I remember feeling irritated that Rosie and her teacher had been left waiting. I was annoyed at Greg and wondered where he was, especially since I couldn’t get an answer on any phone. So I told my supervisor at the clinic that I needed to head out, pick up my child in Knockroe, drop her home to her dad and would then come back to finish my shift.
It was only after I had sped the short distance there, apologized to the preschool teacher and hustled my daughter back to the house that I realized my life was forever changed. If I could go back to that moment so I could enter the kitchen first in order to prevent Rosie from finding her father immobile on the floor, I would.
As it was, there was no changing the past, but I would do my damnedest to make sure that I was always there at the end of the school day so that she didn’t fear the same thing happening to me. She’d already had a tough enough time of it for a five-and-a-half-year-old.
My daughter was everything to me—all that I had these days.
Rosie’s classmates started to appear, refocusing my thoughts and preventing me from once again going down that dark road of introspection as I examined our lives without Greg. Scanning the crowd of Junior Infants, I immediately picked out Rosie’s bright green winter hat, shaped like the head of a T. rex. My little girl had never been the princess type. She adored dinosaurs, wolves, dragons—anything fierce and scary—perhaps even more so since her dad died, and I often wonder if in her own little way she finds comfort in their strength.
“Mum!” she called, waving a hand, as if I hadn’t spotted her yet, her dark curls bouncing as she moved, green eyes wide with excitement. She dragged her backpack—dino-themed again—slightly on the ground and I walked forward to grab it. I didn’t want to have to shell out for another anytime soon. As a single parent, I now did everything I could to avoid unnecessary expenses, especially when we only had my salary to depend on.
Though both in our late thirties, my husband and I had been one of the burgeoning number of Irish families who, despite both being gainfully employed, still couldn’t quite afford that first step on the housing ladder, and the money we’d been saving to buy a house (minimal at best, as the rental house in Knockroe wasn’t cheap) now had to go toward day-to-day household expenses, as well as the creation of a small contingency fund—just in case.
These days, I was a big believer in contingencies.
“Hey, honey,” I answered, closing the distance between us. “Here, give me that, don’t drag it.” Rambunctious by nature, Rosie was hard on shoes and on school belongings, and was growing out of her clothes at a pace that staggered me. She took my hand without breaking stride and walked determinedly toward our battered old Astra while I trailed in her wake.
“Be careful, don’t step in the mud,” I cautioned automatically. “And why don’t you have your boots on? Where are they?” I looked disbelievingly at the flimsy ballet flats she currently sported.
“They’re in the bag. I don’t need them; we’re only getting in the car.” She shrugged and not for the first time, I was taken aback by how much like Greg she sounded. Always so easygoing and carefree, while I was the one more inclined to worry.
We reached the car and I opened the door so Rosie could jump in the back seat. “Buckle up. Car or not, I’d still prefer you to wear your boots in this weather, hon. We don’t want you coming down with a cold and your boots are warmer.” I shut the door and headed around to the driver’s side. Climbing in, I fished my iPhone out of my pocket and handed it to her. “Here you go, DJ,” I said preemptively, knowing that when Rosie was in the car she liked to take charge of the music, usually opting for the American rock anthems so beloved by her father. “So what happened in school today?”
I started the car and pulled out of the parking area as the heat blasted, and Rosie summoned up the Eagles’ “Take It Easy” and began telling me about her day. She outlined all that had occurred, from the new letters they were learning to the Brachiosaurus picture she had drawn in art. I hummed words of encouragement until something she said caused a tinge of panic to flutter through my heart.
“And they sent Ellie home after lunch because she’s sick.”
“What’s wrong with her?” I asked casually. Ellie Madden sat beside Rosie in class. I wasn’t a hypochondriac or anything—as a nurse I couldn’t be, or I’d drive myself crazy—but I was always keenly aware of my daughter’s health, as well as that of her classmates.
I had to be.
