He went straight to Maggie’s blog, and to his surprise he found a new entry. That meant she’d gone home instead of indulging in hot sex with her date. He didn’t think she would’ve posted a blog if they’d gone back to her place, either. Unless, she’d pre-scheduled…
Connor cursed and read the post instead of thinking about Maggie in bed with the blond man.
There’s lots to think about with spanking. Positions, as I’ve mentioned. Spanking implements. I’ve also contemplated lingerie.
As someone mentioned on my favorite forum, lingerie plays an important part in a spanking. There’re the different styles to consider. Do I want my butt cheeks on display or covered with material? Should it be cotton or something silky? Different lingerie. Different sensations.
One woman mentioned G-strings. She enjoys wearing them because her ass cheeks are on display. Another woman enjoys plain cotton panties—the sort a grandmother might wear. A third woman liked silky briefs while another preferred the square-leg boy pants. She said nothing turned her on more than when her husband put her over his knee and flipped up her skirt, swatting her twice through the plain cotton boy-leg panties before dragging them down and spanking her properly.
“Jesus,” Connor muttered. “Where does she get this stuff?” He couldn’t get past the act of spanking. Maggie reflected on positions, implements and now lingerie. She’d posted about communication. Part of him wondered what she’d discuss next.
I feel a yearning for some lingerie shopping. Maybe I’ll see if my girlfriends are up for a spot of retail therapy. My current lingerie is plain, and I’m due for a spending spree. I like wearing sexy lingerie while at work. Dress for work is always conservative because management doesn’t want us to frighten off the customers. At least I can express my individuality with lingerie.
I’ve always wondered about a corset. Some of them are beautiful and can be worn as outerwear with a pair of trousers or a skirt or as lingerie.
What sort of lingerie do you think would work best with a spanking? I look forward to your comments.
Connor reread the end of her post about the corset, and an idea came to him.
Theidea.
It was perfect and fed into her spanking fantasy. This time he’d meet the issue head-on because otherwise he risked losing Maggie to another man.
He felt so good about his idea he emailed her.
Dear Bad Ass,
Why don’t you ask your lover what sort of panties he’d prefer you to wear? Or better yet, why don’t you tell your lover what you want from him? Give him the option of saying no instead of taking the decision away without giving him a chance. Your lover might surprise you.
The worst that could happen is he’ll say no.
The truth is you’ll surprise him. You’ve had more time to consider spanking than him. He might not understand why you want him to spank you. He might not like the idea because his parents raised him to admire and protect women. Tell him what you think spanking will bring to your relationship, explain why you think spanking will improve things between you.
Give him reasons. Men are used to taking the facts and acting. When you spring this on him, your man will likely feel confused and want answers. He might wonder how a negative activity like spanking could improve a relationship. Have those answers ready for him.
Tell your man how you feel about him, and most of all exercise patience.
Best,
Kinky Lover
Connor checked his note and decided covered everything he wanted to learn. Hit the high points. If Maggie had ready answers, it might help him past the worry he’d physically hurt her.
His thoughts drifted to his father. He hadn’t seen him for years and then only during supervised visits. The last had been at age thirteen. A typical teenager, he’d gone sullen when his father had ordered him around. The visit hadn’t gone well, and they’d fought. The fight had escalated from verbal to physical. He’d landed a few punches and had broken his father’s arm before his father had overpowered him.
Not his finest hour.
And the potential for violence worried him. Connor had grown up that day and worked to control his temper every day.
He looked like his father. Same build. Same physical appearance. Same volatile temper. If he raised a hand to Maggie once, would it become easy? Would he strike out no matter what the provocation? Would he turn into a monster?
So far he’d never hit a woman in his life.
He prayed he could hold his shit together and keep it that way.
